A Thought On Support

In the 21st century support comes in many forms. Support is a kind word of encouragement, a thank you, or yes, even a "like" on Facebook.  All forms of support can be taken to the next level. For example this is precisely why the "share" was created. The ultimate form of social media support.

However, I will contend the best kind of support still comes through human to human interaction, conversations, and interest. Yes - engagement, so if you truly want to maximize your support for somebody or something, then show interest and inquire more about it. This form of support trumps every other by a mile. Don't believe me, just think about your own life. Which means the most to you? 

Support your customers. Support your friends. Support your family. Support makes a world of difference.

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DV

The DV Weekend Pickup #24

All Marketers Are Liars by Seth Godin

What I like best: If you follow me at all then you know what I like best...Seth Godin, ha! You can't take the title of this book literally though. Seth is being slightly satirical and because of that it's original release misaligned the public to the messaging of the book. Which is why he later changed the name to All Marketers Tell Stories in a re-release years later. "All marketers are storytellers. Only the losers are liars," says Godin. So what he really meant was authenticity is the key and we believe things we want to believe. Or as puts it, "many things that are true are true because you believe them." 

So ultimately this book is about how great marketers tell stories and even more importantly how they tell stories to people who have the same worldviews. Making authenticity and targeting two very important qualities. Which is the exact reason you can get $80,000 for a Porsche and $36,000 for a Volkswagen that's largely made with the same parts or why people pay $3 for a bottle of Fiji water.

Whether you're trying to market yourself, a company, product, or service - doesn't matter - the principles are the same. This book will show and prove you that. As always, pick it up! Let me know what you think.

Best quote: "We drink the can, not the beverage."

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DV

The DV Weekend Pickup #23

The Richest Man in Babylon by George Clason

What I like best:  Clason's work with TRMB is touted as one of the most important finance books of all time.  It's only 110 pages long but packs a wealth of knowledge.  It is the epitome of simple and actionable.  Published in 1926 and still selling copies today, it surely has stood the test of time. Clason uses ancient Babylonian principles to guide the reader with story after story of timeless personal finance lessons. You will meet the goddess of luck, the luckiest man in Babylon, the gold lender of Babylon, and of course the richest man in Bablyon. You will learn the 7 cures for a lean purse, 5 laws of gold, and the golden rule - "a part of all you earn is yours to keep." Overall it is a fun, quick, and impactful read on an extremely important topic. Pick it up, read it, and engage - let me know what you think!

Best Quote: "Our acts can be no wiser than our thoughts."

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DV

Before You're A Good Salesperson, Be A Good Person

In our culture salespeople have been battling a bad wrap for decades.  It's a career and skill set that's assumed to hinge on lying, deceit, and quick-wit.  Like most thing's in life, there's more than meets the eye.  Unfortunately, the majority of people choose to not seek comprehension.  It's not their fault we all do it.  It's requires signicantly less work to assume.  However, this surface level assessment couldn't be farther from the truth (in quality salespeople.)  They believe first and foremost, BE A GOOD PERSON.

As salespeople it's our responsibility to understand this very real societal assumption exists. Yes, we have to take responsibility for it.  Otherwise, your lack of awareness will be your downfall. Sorry, it's what you signed up for.  We are fighting an uphill battle everyday.  Which means people, yes, even our customers are commonly looking for a way to pin that assumption on you. It's just easier for them, the association has been conditioned by society.  Don't let it happen, BE A GOOD PERSON.

I'd recommend, CHOOSING to view this positively, not as a victim.  It is an opportunity to stand out, showcase our character, provide unique value, and be an asset to our customers.  This set's you up for long term success rather than short term gain.  So before you're a good salesperson, BE A GOOD PERSON.

Happy Selling!

DV

The DV Weekend Pickup #22

Just Listen by Mark Goulston

What I like best:  Dr. Mark Goulston is a prominent present day psychiatrist who's had a ton of critical acclaim throughout the course of his career. This book has already made a substantial impact in my life and I just finished it two weeks ago, ha.  So much so, that I am adopting and doing further reading on a few of the strategies so I can confidently implement them into groundupSALES - that's how impactful. 

I don't typically suggest books until I let things sink in a bit. However, this book has to much value ($10 on Amazon) with actionable techniques, strategies, and tips to improve your communication skills.  A skill that ALWAYS requires refining and improving. We are almost never as good as we think we are at communicating. So let me repeat that, communication skills ALWAYS need to be refined and improved. Excellent communication skills are the foundation of diplomacy, problem solving, and comprehension - among many other things.

As Dr. Goulston says, "Do you ever feel like your talking to a brick wall?" If you want to be heard then you need to breakthrough - whether they are the cynical colleague, overwhelmed spouse, or a furious customer. This book tackles that plus much, much more.  Pick it up and let me know what you think!

Best Quote:  "Perceiving is believing. Misperceiving is deceiving. And worst yet, it prevent's achieving."

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DV

THANK YOU!

Yes, yes - today is my birthday. They tell me this one is a milestone, the big 3-0. Yup, 30. The funny thing is I don't feel much different than I did yesterday when I was 29. I did notice a few gray chest hairs this morning so that was a bit concerning. I noticed a few more wrinkles over the past year or two but I guess I have you to thank for that, making me laugh/smile all the time. Honestly, I was kind of happy I turned 30 because people don't listen to anyone in their 20's so I kind of needed it to happen quickly, ha.  On a more serious note...

I appreciate ALL of your support. I wanted to THANK every single person who has made the first 30 years of my life memorable and the rest of my life possible.  Whether it was heartache or jubilee - I am thankful for it all - everything has led me to this point. So here's to all of you.

I am eternally grateful, THANK YOU.

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DV

Relationships Require...

Relationships of any variety - romantic, business, or friendship - need to be built and are meant to be worked on. Yup, that's right construction and maintenance. The idea that a relationship just naturally happens or just naturally continues is ludicrous, ha. 

"Nothing worth having comes easy." - Anonymous

In all relationships either party expects to get something out of it, that fact is clear. We date people we like. We do business with people we like. We hangout with people we like. Somewhere lost in between intention and authenticity customers/prospects/people view relationship building as - gaming - which couldn't be farther from the truth. The point of a business relationship is to build trust and confidence so you can problem solve together NOT against each other. 

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DV

The DV Weekend Pickup #21

The 10X Rule by Grant Cardone

What I like best:  Grant has an in your face, my way or the highway style that he has owned throughout his career - not for the faint of heart, ha. For those of you who don't know Grant's story he is a former car salesman with a history of drug and alcohol abuse who has spent a lifetime on determined action and reform. He has made a career in sales training, motivation, and real estate with an estimate net worth of $400 million, it's fair to say he's come a long way in 30 years. "There is no shortage on success," says Cardone. Just because somebody else is having success in a particular industry, line of work, investment - whatever - that doesn't inhibit you in the least bit from doing the same. 

What I really enjoyed is this idea that if you want extreme success then you can't act like everybody else, in fact you need to be different, you need to take 10X the necessary action as the "normal" person. By doing this you remove common buzz words that follow extreme success like "luck" or "chance." He has an interesting take on action citing that most people only have three degree's of action - no action, retreat, or normal action. The uber successful all operate with a that fourth degree of action - MASSIVE action or 10X action. Get use to criticism though because as Grant contends it always precedes admiration. Fun read for already highly motivated individuals.  

Best quote: "As long as you are alive, you will live to accomplish your own goals and dreams or be used as a resource to accomplish somebody else's."

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DV

An Investment That Will Change Your Life

Without a doubt this is the most underappreciated, underfunded, and least talked about investment of your hard earned capital yet it is hands down the most important. It has a direct correlation to the future of you and your family yet it is continually neglected. You ABSOLUTELY need to...

INVEST IN YOURSELF

Take more online courses. Read more books. Learn new skills. Become better. Commit actual money to the improvement of YOU. It's the best investment you will ever make - I promise.

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DV

3 BIG Reasons to Be Nice to Salespeople

Happy Monday! Hope everyone had a great weekend. So it's the start of the week and that pesky salesperson comes knocking, ringing, or emailing - what do you do? Lay into him/her? Ignore?  Despite contrary belief here's 3 reason why you should be nicer to the salesperson:

1. It's probably your friend or family member (1 out of every 9 Americans are in some form of sales.)

2. They are trying to help you - their goal is more than likely to make you happy. (*Disclaimer - If they are good.)

3. They are keeping the economy afloat, without sales you don't have a businesses, without businesses you don't a jobs.

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DV